Yesterday, I spent roughly six hours on the phone with this man from Texas who Olena Yaremishyn also scammed. He supplied me with plenty of proof that all Olena had been telling me was lies. You can find some of this proof at the “Evidence” link at the top of the page. Even after I caught her in all of the lies and she said she was “coming clean” and telling the truth about it all, it was still nearly all lies, sprinkled with enough truth to attempt to exonerate herself. Blaming everyone else and taking no responsibility for her despicable actions.

After being given all of this “truth”, in a time when I should have rightfully been distraught and upset, I was left trying to calm, comfort, and reassure her. While she had a panic attack and was hitting me, grabbing at me, and kicking me, despite being asked several times to stop. I tried many times telling her to just calm down. That everything would be fine. Nobody was going to hurt her. She tried to twist this story and say that I tried to choke her and beat her, then threw her out in the cold. This could not possibly be any further from the truth. I only held her and tried to stop her from repeatedly attacking me. I did not throw her out, she asked to leave and I let her. I even warned her that she would have no way to leave til the next morning and told her that she could stay in the spare bedroom for the night. She was determined to run. I never in my life laid a hand on Olena in anger. Every touch was with love. Even at the end when she did not deserve it. When she should have been the one comforting me, she forced me to care for her in one last selfish act.

I am a 6’2″ bodybuilder, much stronger than the average man. If I tried to strangle someone, or if I hit someone, they would definitely know I had done it and would have some very serious marks as evidence. I invite her to share that evidence. I will gladly upload it here for all to see. I have nothing to hide from anybody. I did not run away. I am here.

What sort of person lies about being raped by one man and then lies about being choked and beaten by another? All to try to make herself look like the victim in situations that she created. Do you really believe I spent $12,000+ of my own hard earned money and months of my life cultivating a relationship just to bring Olena to my home so I can strangle her and beat her? This really proves she will do anything to deflect blame from herself. Even at the cost of men she repeatedly said she loved. She told stories of other past men in her life. Her first boyfriend who was an older boy that lived next door to her in her village. Supposedly this boy beat her as well and she had to leave him because of it. They were not together long. Another man she mentioned was from Australia. Supposedly he had been abused as a child and was not able to have sex with her, so she left him. There was another man she dated for a short while who was supposedly sleeping with all of Kyiv and gave her an infection. She has lasting damage to her uterus because of it. This story was why she claimed she did not have sex for 3 years before meeting me, but within 2-3 hours of meeting me she was ready to have sex. The man from Texas said within a couple of hours she was asking him for sex as well. 31 years old and only three short relationships with these broken men? Given what we now know, it all seems unlikely.

She always tried to use her parents as an excuse for everything she was doing, but they knew all along she was running these scams on us. They knew she was playing with us both and probably knew of others. She claims her parents are innocent victims of her scamming escapades, but they were at least complicit with what she was doing. She did often say the only thing that mattered to her was getting money to send back to her parents in the village. My guess is that they helped her to orchestrate and execute these scams. To help find targets and set things up. She constantly complained of the immense pressure they put on her to get more money and send it to them.

Together, the man from Texas and I determined that the most likely cause of her terrible breath and strange body odor is that she is bulimic. She dropped a lot of weight in a very short period of time and then gained it all back very quickly. She was constantly complaining about feeling sick and throwing up for no reason. She had a lot of the signs and medical conditions most commonly associated with bulimia like always dieting, visiting the bathroom immediately after eating, always running the tap water while in the bathroom, she was always extremely weak to a surprising degree, and extensive dental issues. We also believe she exhibits all of the signs of a narcissist with shocking accuracy. She very clearly has no regard for the lives of others or their feelings. I am not sure she is capable of feeling anything at all other than anger and fear. She is ice cold inside and clearly cares only about herself. She craves validation and constant admiration. She had these fantasies of being rich and successful but had no qualities or skills to obtain that on her own, expecting to find a partner to provide it all to her. She was very critical of and looked down on everyone in her life, even her closest friends and family. She believes she is better than everyone else, but had no substance to her character or personality to justify this feeling. Her greatest fear in life was to be exposed as the fraud she is. These two conditions often compliment each other. She obsesses over being skinny due to her vanity. She knows no other way to make a living, than to do these dating scams. She is completely unwilling to work a real job, so her appearance is her only concern. She has no regard for anyone else’s wellbeing or safety. She cares only about herself, as she has exhibited many times.

When a normal person has decided they want to spend the rest of their life with another person, they will bare their soul to them. They will tell them all of their inner most secrets. They will share all of the burdens of life. They will respect them and be faithful to them. They will communicate effectively with them to avoid conflict. They will give them support and affection. They will make room for them in their life and heart. Olena did the opposite of all of these things. She lied, manipulated, cheated, stole, hid, ran away, disrespected, started fights over nothing for no reason, and attempted to harm the people she supposedly loved. At least two men she had promised to spend the rest of her life with. Men she claimed to want a family with. These are not the actions of a person who can be trusted with anything.

She had told me that she did not know this man in Texas. He had found her on a Facebook group for refugees while she was living in Canada. She said this man messaged her to offer a job. In reality she had met him in Kyiv back in March of 2021. Before she ever met me. She hounded him to start a relationship with her through all the time I spent with her in Ternopil. I saw messages and calls to him from the same days I spent with her there. She was also begging him to come to Spain while I was spending time with her there. Supposedly I was in Spain to start the rest of our lives together, but at the same time she is messaging and calling other men asking for them to come do the same. All the while telling me she loves me and wants to marry me. Also, while living in Canada she was making plans to go to Texas to be with this man. At the same time making plans to come to me. Telling us the same things on the same days. How did she think she could do both? Did she really believe she would not be caught? How many other men was she doing this to?

When she first came to Chicago to meet me after she left Canada, I believe she had no intention of ever coming to my city to be with me. She already had plans to go to Texas to be with this man. There was never any job as she claimed. She did not work for him. He never offered to allow her to work for him. It was all invented by Olena to cover the fact that she was going there to pretend to be in a relationship with this man to scam him. The most interesting part of this story is that this man never wanted to be with Olena. He only allowed her to come to him because she was telling him she had nowhere else to go. She manipulated her way into his life and tried to seduce him while living there. Her lies and manipulation did work on him for some time, but towards the end he started to see through it all and she knew it was not working. He was rejecting her and telling her he did not want the relationship with her. I believe this is the real reason she invented this story about being raped and asked to come to me. She thought I would be easier to manipulate. While in Texas she was still talking to me and telling me she missed me and loved me. Telling me she would come eventually, but she needed to finish some papers and things in Texas before she could come. All the while living in the home of this man and telling him she wanted a family with him. The same like she would tell me. Olena invented entire realities for herself that did not exist. After many hours on the phone and exchanging messages, I have learned a lot about all of the wild lies Olena told to manipulate all of the situations to her advantage. To extract from us as much as she possibly could. I cannot fathom how a person can lie on a level like this. It is beyond anything either of us has ever experienced. We are both in shock and awe at the depth with which she invented lives for everyone around her that were not based in reality.

This man in Texas also caught her talking to many other men. It definitely was not just me. She had a whole list of guys in her phone that she would call and chat with daily, even doing so right in front of him because she had changed the names of the men in her phone to make them appear to be women. He said she once showed him her contact list and there were over 1,500 people, mostly men. He grew suspicious and she did not like this. She was attacking him for questioning why she kept in contact with all these men. She claimed all were just “friends” but we already know that is a lie. She said he was trying to “control” her by asking about these men, but why does he not have the right to know it? When she is asking to marry and have a baby together. She wants to start a family, but she cannot even be honest about basic things? It makes no sense.

She allowed the daughter of this man to call her “mom”. While at the same time she kept multiple relationships going and made promises to be with other men. Scamming everyone and harming this poor child. Olena had actually told me about this girl, but the story she told is dark and vile. She had called me on a few occasions saying she was babysitting for the daughter of a family she was friends with. She told me that this girl was mildly retarded and that she had behavioral issues. She couldn’t go out with the rest of the family (father, mother, and son) so they would leave her behind and pay Olena to care for her. She told me that the girl was obsessed with the father and it was sick to see it. She said the girl hated her mother and would only communicate with the father. The story was very odd, but now that I know the real story, I understand that Olena was jealous of this girl. Olena invented this story about a little girl because she was jealous of the relationship she had with the man she was scamming. The depths of this depravity is beyond the disgust I already had for Olena! To do this to an innocent child is inexcusable and soulless!

After she left Texas and came to me, I very quickly saw through her lies. It was so obvious to me that she was not telling the truth and that she was hiding things. She tried hard to cover herself and make more lies to hide the facts. To blame me for all of it and turn everything around to be my fault for being suspicious. She claims she was “trying” to be with me during this time after she left him, but lying and having other men you are telling “I love you” is not trying. She was still saying it to him daily and trying to convince him to take her back. She wanted to play both sides of the field to get as much as she could from all. God only knows what else she got from all of the other men. Hopefully more will come forward as time passes.

In all this time after she left Texas, Olena was telling me she had blocked this man everywhere. That she was not talking to him at all. That he was making fake accounts to harass her. She even pretended to go to the police and make a report against him. I have now seen proof that she was talking to him the entire time and even as recently as yesterday is still telling him she loves him and wants him back. She believes she still has some hold over him, but he clearly has no interest in ever being with her. From the evidence I have seen he never had any interest in being with her. He was very clear with her about this from the time they met all through the current day. Yet, she continues to try to convince him. Begging to come visit her or pay for her to come back to him. She is so greedy and desperate that she cannot give up. Now that she knows he found this site and talks to me she is silent. She no longer tries to convince him. She knows she is caught.

She was sending us both the same photos and messages. Probably mass messaging all of the men she was scamming. She would go stand in parking lots and walk the streets to talk to me and the other men while she was in Texas. Trying to hide what she was doing. Her claims of him abusing her were clearly invented. It seems she was the one who was abusive. She apologized profusely to him and begged for forgiveness and to be taken back. It seems she actually believed he had any interest despite him telling her repeatedly that he was not interested and she should stop trying.

On the same day that Olena was messaging me telling me she will come be with me once she does her fingerprints for Social Security, she was messaging this man to tell him she would come to him. She wanted to fly to Houston to see him, but he refused her. When I also refused her, she understood she was trapped in USA without the support of either of us. She had backed herself into a corner that she could not get out of.

Yet, still she tried to convince us both that she still wanted to be with us. Even though she clearly was never going to be successful. I believe she will stop at nothing to get what she wants from anyone. She will resort to whatever means necessary to cheat you and steal from you. She has no moral compass. She feels nothing. No guilt. No shame. No remorse. For her it is all a game and the only thing that matters is herself. She has total disregard for others. She does not care about their lives or their feelings. She uses people and disposes of them when they can no longer be useful to her, or when they learn the truth about her evil ways. Only letting them go when she knows there is nothing else to take from them. I strongly suggest you avoid this woman and anyone who associates with her! These friends who try to defend her are the same like her. They think this behavior is normal and acceptable. They think nobody is hurt. They are just taking money from the money tree. The tree does not know it is being robbed, so it cannot feel the pain. If you meet Olena or one of her scammer friends, you should run fast and far away!

XOXO B Poster